much like a few people i’ve seen here I’m the last person anyone would ever suspect had a sex addiction…. but after scoring 36/40 on self diagnosis tests and even the fact i now think i need help… means i probably do.Im female,27, professionally very successful… i live with my partner of 6 years and have a good relationship… however i have never been faithful to anyone since i became sexually active at 17. I don’t look like the type and i suppose im quiet and keep this part of myself distant from all my family and friends. My partner has no idea… but ive lost count of the amount of times ive been unfaithful to him…. im always safe… but its like i cant stop myself. I’ve had multiple partners at the same time, sex only… i know if i want sex then i have now over 40 men in my phone that i can just call…. it wasn’t until i started counting up and realised that wasn’t good. I cant help myself, i need and crave the attention… but i now don’t understand why, my partner is supportive and loves me but i feel live i am living a separate life… i’ve done things that afterwards ive promised myself never to do again… then less than a week later i’m there again… i’ve jepordised my job, my relationship… a few times my safety putting myself into situations for sex… and i don’t understand why and find it hard to stop.I don’t know where to go for help, but i don’t feel normal anymore… i don’t really feel anything anymore… and after the last stupid situation i got myself i need help but until now… have been a little too spineless to admit it to anyone…even myself.